MARRIAGE AND CHURCH: WHEN THE TWO COLLIDE.

Marriage and church seem to have some differences that no one talks about. 

In the recent years, stories of mchungaji "eating" mwanakondoo have been rampant.

Recently, a soldier beat up mchungaji who later succumbed to injuries after he caught him pants down with his wife.

Women are mostly the victims since male mwanakondoo would just "surrender" under the temptations of a female Natasha.

The root of the enmity between marriage and and the church could be traced back to the women who started worshipping their pastors.

You would hear some saying " hiyo kikombe na sahani ni ya pastor" or "hii bedroom itakua ya pastor". The moment we allowed this differential treatment for pastors in our homes is the day we lost our marriage.

Nowadays pastors have more powers than husbands. A pastor can summon your wife at midnight and she will go.

If you try to complain you will be told "wewe uko na laana".

Modern day ushuhuda in church from women has been demeaning men and this gives pastors ample time to prey during prayers.

I know of many marriages that were destroyed by pastors. 

There are a lot of women who were visited by "roho mtaka kitu" and this resulted into a holy pregnancy.

Pastors have now become the main priorities for our women.

They would dictate how we should be treated back in our homes and when we complain we are told "Pastor amesema".

I'm not against the church but there should be regulations on times when this thing called "kesha" is conducted. It's here where gullible believers are taught "missionary ways".

Ecclesiastes says that there is time for everything and that's what we should follow.

Pastors should also stop using our women as a toll of emotional support.

Explain to me why a pastor who has lost a parent needs mwanakondoo for ?