HAPPY FATHER'S DAY TO ALL FATHERS OUT THERE.


Today is World's Father's Day, but is there something worth celebrating as a man?
A father's role has been downplayed to the extent of women calling  themselves "father and mother ". Fear the ''empowered women'' 

The judicial system is so gynocentric and biased towards women.
Last week we saw something extraordinary in Mombasa. There was a case filed by a woman claiming custody of her children and the court as usual did what they do best by giving the kids to her.
The next moment shook the crowd. The kids refused to go with her to the extent of one of the kids stoning the lady.

They sided with the seemingly unwell dad.
This prompted the judge to change the decision and give the kids to their father. It was a win for the men.

Another incident occurred in Eldoret where the kids refused to go with the mother.

This shows that as much as we always label men as "roho ngumu", we are also capable of caring for the kids.

Now, how many men are suffering in the villages because the wife has invited the kids with lies to the extent of forcing their fathers to submit or be left out when the "black tax" is sent?

We saw the story about Ngugi Wa Thiongo and his kids.
The kids were brainwashed by the mom into thinking that the man was violent when all he wanted was to stay away from the woman who was a spy sent by his "enemies".

Many kids raised by single moms have always been fed with lies about their fathers.
Baba yako alikukataa. That's what they say about them.
They give a one-sided account of the story without saying what they did for the man to leave.

Most of the time, a man will spend less time with the kids because he has to look for money to feed, educate and clothe them. This gives the mothers ample time to degrade the role of the man.
"Si unaona baba yako hakuangi ni mimi tu nakuanga, ukipata pesa usisahau". We work so hard to send money to pay bills and fees and yet no one appreciates.

The women take the credit.Fees ni pesa ngapi wanataka nikulipie, baba yako ni kama hana haja na masomo yako, instead of saying "baba yako ametuma hapa pesa ya shule"

The only reason why we become estranged from our dads is because our mothers play a big role.

The differential treatment can be seen when celebrating Mother's Day, we buy them expensive gifts and treat them to nice meals.
On Father's Day, we only give our fathers cigarettes or mia mbili ya chang'aa. Sometimes we even forget about them.

Did you post your dad today since we are celebrating them?
Ask yourself why.

My advice for my fellow men is always have your own ''pension scheme'' that your wife and kids know nothing about or else you will be forced to submit.

#HAPPYFATHER'SDAY

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